Do you often find relationships are a struggle for you? Perhaps you feel that you have never met the ‘right’ person or that you are always loving the wrong person? Maybe you are currently with someone who you feel may not be ‘the one’?
There are many signs that could show you that you are in love with the wrong person, but they may not be easy to spot unless pointed out to you. I am going to be sharing some signs that you are in love with the wrong person, but first, let’s take a look at how you can manifest love with the right person.
If you are aware of the Law of Attraction, you may know that manifestation plays a big part in achieving what you want in life. You can also use the Law of Attraction to manifest love into your life. If you feel that you always find the wrong person, which results in failed relationships, you may need to evaluate who you want to be with.
Here are some steps you can take to manifest love with the right person:
It can be hard to recognize that you are with the wrong person and you may be wondering what you should look out for. Sometimes relationships don’t work out for a variety of reasons, however, it could be because you are entering relationships with people you are not compatible with.
Here are some signs to look out for that can help you to decide if you are in love with the wrong person.
If you feel that you have to act differently to how you normally would when you are around your partner, you may be with the wrong person. It could be that you are scared of being judged or criticized by your partner, but if they are not happy with the person you are then they are unlikely to be the right person for you.
When you are in a relationship with someone, you accept each other for who they are and the faults that they may have. If someone makes you change who you are, this is a big sign that they could be the wrong person for you.
If you find that you constantly watch what you say or do around your partner, or your friends comment on the change, have a think about how you want your relationship to be and if you should be with this person or not.
When you are in a happy, healthy relationship and you envision your future, it is very likely that your partner will also be in it. You may think about moving in together, getting married or even just planning a holiday with them.
Whereas, if you are with the wrong person, you may not include them when you are thinking about your future. Perhaps you are unsure if you will still be together in years to come, or you just don’t see yourself with them further down the line (i.e marriage, moving in together).
If this is the case, take a look at your relationship and start to evaluate if this person is right for you and try to recognize why you don’t include them in your future plans.
All relationships are very likely to have problems occur at some point or another, and it’s how we deal with these problems that are most important. If you can talk things out and understand how your partner feels then this is a good sign.
However, if you constantly argue and don’t seem to be able to resolve things with your partner, this could be a sign that you are with the wrong person.
If you can’t understand each other and tackle problems together, you may want to think about whether or not the relationship will last.
Everyone has insecurities and doubts about themselves and it’s perfectly normal to have days where you are not as confident or positive about yourself. However, if you are in a healthy relationship, your partner will help you to stay positive and try to make you feel good about yourself.
If you are constantly judged, or your partner undermines your confidence, this is not a good sign and the relationship is likely to be unhealthy. When you are in a great relationship and spend time with your partner, you are likely to feel positive.
If your partner makes you feel insecure or judged, this could be a sign that you are in love with the wrong person.
Your family and friends are usually the people that know you the most and can also look at things objectively. If they start to show concern about your relationship, it may be worth opening your mind and listening to what they have to say.
They should want the best for you, so if they are not sure about your partner, it might be a good idea to find out why and speak to them about it. This can help you to decide what you should do and what is the best thing for your relationship.
Your friend's and families' comments may also resonate with how you are feeling about your relationship too, which is why it’s best to stay open-minded.
Trust is a very important part of a healthy relationship and you should be able to trust each other. If there is a problem, you would normally talk about it with your partner and resolve the issue. So, when you are unsure about something, instead of accusing your partner, you should resolve the issue.
If you often find that you don’t trust your partner, or you constantly feel that they are lying to you and sneaking around behind your back, this is not a good sign. It also doesn’t help if you can’t resolve the issue or talk about it with them.
If this is the case with your relationship, it may be worth having a think about how you want to deal with it and if you should be with this person.
Sometimes relationships can be hard and you may need to work on certain things in order to be happy. In a healthy, happy relationship, you will learn how to make the other person feel loved and they should learn the same for you too.
However, if you feel that you just don’t know how to make your partner feel loved, no matter how hard you try, or they can’t do the same for you, there may be a problem.
If even after talking to your partner, you cannot work out how to make each other feel loved, this may be a sign you are not right for each other.
You may have realized that you are attracting the wrong people into your life. Many people go through different relationships when they are trying to find ‘the one’.
If you feel that you are still struggling to find the right person, or want some more help with receiving and manifesting love into your life, take a look at our Love tool kit and start attracting the right person today.
