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Learn How To Manifest Those “Hard to Get” Things More Effectively

A man and woman learn how to manifest while on a boat.

What first drew you to learn about the Law of Attraction? What drew you to learn how to manifest? You were probably motivated by a deep desire for change.

A desire that was intimately connected to some specific ideas of what your future could be like. Perhaps you were yearning for financial abundance, a satisfying career, or lasting love.

However, although these “big” goals may have encouraged you to start your manifestation journey, you might also be intimidated by their scope and importance. Are you struggling to manifest the types of things that most people find hard to get? Here are the secrets you need to know.

Confront Your Fears


While a core part of working with the Law of Attraction involves becoming a more positive person, it’s important to acknowledge that this isn’t always an easy process.

Even though you want to think good things about yourself and the world around you, the truth is that you need to look at your negative thoughts in the eye before this can really be authentic.

Whether your goal is money, love, success or something else, set aside some time to ask yourself about your underlying limiting beliefs. What are you worried might happen? What messages have you received from your family, partners or colleagues that suggest you can’t achieve your dream?

Write all of these beliefs down. Next, write down reasons to reject these limiting beliefs. For example, you might have written that your parents told you “not to get above yourself”. And that this makes you believe you shouldn’t be wealthy.

However, you might counter this by writing that your parents didn't like major change and that you don’t have to be the same.

Basically, in confronting your anxieties about achieving your goal, you can reason your way out of those fears and start building a more positive belief system—one that is in harmony with your core desire, and that helps you send out coherent messages to the universe about what you want to manifest.

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Purge Your Life of Negativity

Now, even if you’re a very positive person on the inside and have been working hard to feel good about your Law of Attraction goals, you’ll find it hard to manifest “big things” like love, money or success if you have negative influences sapping your energy.

So, take a critical look at your social life. Are you spending time with people who offer encouragement and support? Who really believes in your ability to change your life? If there are people who don’t fulfill this positive role for you, then it’s worth thinking about seriously downsizing your interactions with them.

Meanwhile, your living space also matters a great deal. It can lead you to vibrate on a lower frequency that makes it harder for you to attract the things you want.


If your home feels drab, untidy, or like it doesn’t reflect your personality, you can change it. It's amazing what changing this can do for your overall mood and your manifestation abilities.

Add color, remove clutter, and consider whether you’re constantly exposing your subconscious to reminders of negative times. Choose decorative objects that remind you of your self-confidence, creativity, and joy. Try to do this near the places where you work, relax and sleep.

Let Go

Finally, as odd as it may sound, you really need to find a way to let go of your dreams if you’re going to manifest the life you deserve.

When you cling too tightly to your idea of what you want, you aren’t sending that desire into the universe. So it can’t have that much impact on your surroundings.

The analogy I always like to use is that of throwing a ball into a net—you can’t get the ball to that destination if you can’t let it go!

But how are you supposed to let go of something so precious? The answer is that you need to bring yourself to trust in the universe, and in your destiny. You’re not working along here—you’re working collaboratively with energy that’s all around you.

Believe in the power of that collaboration, and set your dream free. Sometimes, a symbolic act can really help here. For example, you might write your goal onto a balloon, and let it float up out of your hands.

Alternatively, you might try repeating a releasing affirmation three times a day for a week—something like “I trust that the universe will give me what I need” or “I let go of my dream, and trust that it will be fulfilled.”

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Katherine Hurst
By Katherine Hurst
Katherine Hurst, is a Law of Attraction expert, best-selling author, workshop leader, educator, and award-winning blogger on psychology, life design, structured thinking and emotional wellbeing.

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